Learning some basics

Very cthted older guy. Married and divorced twice. Neither knew that I was a cocksucker. I'd had sex with men over the years but I was always very careful and cautious so my experience was pretty limited. I'd read about men kissing and making out but I was never really into it and felt that it was "too gay". In my mid 50s I started to get more active looking for men and so I met another closeted man on CL and ended up meeting with him for a number of years. By my second or third visit he asked me if I'd be into fucking him. I'd had few opportunities over the years since I mostly met with men in public places and I was mostly into exchanging blow jobs or hand jobs. I told him I would like it and after that we'd always end with him having me cum in his asspussy and then I'd blow him. Very soon I told him I would only fuck him bareback and if he wasn't into it I wouldn't visit. After a few days he called me and said he was horny to have sex with me and asked if I'd come over. I was very horny to fuck him bare. We didn't talk about what I'd demanded but I was turned on thinking about how nasty and dirty it felt asking him to let me leave my cum inside him. We'd been fucking for a few months but with condoms. I went over and neither of us said anything about what I'd said. . In fact he hardly spoke after we started to have sex. was very turned on wondering what was going to happen and sooner than usual I whispered that I wanted to fuck. He spread his legs and pulled me up till we felt my cockhead nestle into his crack. I'd suspected that he was as turned on as me about fucking bareback and he was. When I first started going over he was always nervous and it would take a bit for him to relax as we had sex. When we started fucking I got on his case a bit and he started to open up more. Once I started to fuck him bare it unlocked something in him. He told me that what I wanted scared him but he asked me over because it turned him on too. He said knowing that he was going to have nasty dirty bareback sex with me opened something in him and since then he's enjoyed having sex with me more freely and is less nervous. From then on he was an eager cockslut for me every time I visited. I always would tell him how glad I was that we'd met as I held his head and pushed my cock into his willing mouth. I told him what a slut he'd become and how much I liked having sex with him. A few times because of work I was near by and asked if I could stop by and fuck him. Each time he let me know he wasn't cleaned and ready for me but let me stop by for a quickie. A few times we met other men and they came over. He loved having a cock in his ass as he sucked a guy off