I've been an electrical contractor for twenty years. This black investor has been with me for more than ten years. We were working on one of his houses. He's a normal guy he had two small children, now both in high school and he also now has a three year old.
We were working together and he was complaining about never having sex. I told him a lot of guys start playing with other males, for various reasons. He asked what I did and I said, most of the time, nothing, that I hadn't found anyone I wanted to have sex with. I sort of half kidded that I might consider sex with him.
He asked what I had to think about it. I told him I had no idea what he would like. Then I asked him point blank what he would do if I asked him for sex.
He was like, I'm married, and I told him that I would still fuck him if he wanted. Then I asked, "Will you let me fuck you, our secret? " And he said yes. He was real good in bed and we became partners on the down low.