Unexpected Connection at a Family Gathering

Ken part 1.
I have been a closeted bi, mostly gay man for years. Im very private in my activities. So no one knows.
This happened almost 10 years ago.
I have a cousin that we are pretty close. He had a party and I went to. I was dating a lady at the time and she went with me.
I was introduced to a guy that night that was a relative of my cousin on his other side of the family.
His name was Ken,
I seen Ken there before we were introduced. He was a handsome man. . His body was chiseled and there was no drought he took care of himself. But his eyes glowed blue.
My mouth watered just looking at him.
We were introduced and chatted for awhile. But my senses told me he was gay. We spoke during the evening as well as he got along with my girlfriend.
He had mentioned he moved to town a few months before. He lived in my district.
A few weeks passed and I run into him at a gas station. We exchanged pleasantries. He asked about my girlfriend. I told him we went our separate ways.
We exchanged numbers to get a coffee sometime.
Honestly I didnt think it would happen. About a week later he sent a text asking if I wanted to meet for a drink at a bar that was in the gay district. I had been there before. It wasnt a gay bar, but it was a known pick up bar for swingers, gay, lesbians.
I told him I would meet him there.
I acted like I had never been to this place. And I didnt think he knew what the place was.
So we met and he had seats at the bar.
We talked and was getting along. But we both seen the men and women kissing or holding hands.
He told me he lived a few blocks away. And he had been coming to the bar since he moved in town.
I guess we both played straight and innocent for a few beers.
Once the alcohol started taking over.
And the innocent conversation ran out.
Ken went to the restroom. Upon his return he stood next to me close. He put his hand on the back of my chair. He turned my stool to face him. He looked down at me, then leaned towards my ear.
Then he was blunt.
He said I think your sexy, he looked in my eyes for my reaction, I said thank you.
Then he leaned back down and said let's go to my place. It wasnt a question. His voice was demanding.
But again he looked at me for my reaction. I just nodded my head ok.
But again he leaned down and said I'm going to make you want to spend the night.
I was shocked but excited and didnt say anything. Then he kissed me.
We left.